James Gorman: Letters to My Father
Dear All, – by the way, that might not feel very personal, but if you had 9 siblings like I did you were not about to spell out their names every week – Well I arrived safely after 36 hours of flying via Auckland, Honolulu, and Los Angeles. The former tenant of my room is still asleep in my bed. Let’s say the changeover was finely tuned. Then again, everything is a little on the margin. My room is small, very small, but I discovered I can see the Empire State Building if I lean out my window far enough. I-House reflects New York; fantastic facilities, dirty and very security conscious.
Life experiences:
Sunday dinner was a big event – It was in this room – Suit, tie and entertainment. The president spoke, and as he mentioned that the Australians had come from the farthest place, 11,000 miles, for what I thought was a relatively minor accomplishment we were, much to my amusement, roundly applauded.
Thereafter followed one hour of violin, piano and jazz. It was great fun. Jesse Jackson, the former U.S. Presidential Candidate, is coming to I-House this week, as is Prime Minister Gandhi and former President Gerald Ford. Where else in the world would you be so lucky as to have those people speak within one month?
And then on friends:Tonight I studied with a Spaniard, a Filipino, and a Frenchman. It sounds like the beginning of a joke. The Yanks are incredible, loud, happy, friendly and buzzing with energy. They ask questions in class continuously, many of them needlessly. As participation is graded, I’m forced to do the same, adopting the simple rule, when in Rome, put your hand up.
Fourthly, money:I purchased a Hewlett Packard 12C calculator today for $100, and with books of $200 my finances are riding a bit of a storm.
By the way – not part of the letter – that was good practice for the financial crisis I would confront 25 years later. I was always short of money. I borrowed as a student loan, and those of you concerned about your student debts, I borrowed at 24%. Then along came Volcker. Finally, on career – International House was highly instrumental in pointing me toward a career in banking, as this final extract will evidence:I’ve been lucky to be assigned to a trustee as part of the student trustee link program, with each trustee matched to one student. Mine is Shelby Cullom Davis, a legendary Wall Street banker. – Indeed, Mr. Davis (and this is me speaking), a tremendous supporter of I-House and whose family name adorns the very room we’re sitting in tonight – He took me to lunch at a fancy club in Midtown New York, and at the end of the lunch he turned and pointed at me and he said, “You, son, should pursue a career in finance.”
And so I did. Thank you, International House, on behalf of myself and so many others who’ve benefited from your welcome, your warmth and your worldliness.